So you think she might be pregnant. Here's some quick advice that may be of benefit to you right now:

The Do's

1. Listen. The situation involves more than just you. There are now three lives to think about.
2. Stay Calm. Freaking out will only magnify the negative. You're not the first couple ever to be in this spot.
3. Talk about it. Hiding the news from people who can genuinely help you only increases the stress.

The Don'ts

1. Don't bail. The more you run from this, the harder it becomes to think and act clearly.
2. Don't pressure her. Applying pressure will only push her away, possibly into a regretful situation. Both of you would do well to work as a team.
3. Don't forget. You have a very active role in this situation. Listen to input as well as give your thoughts.

It's true, we're here to help. At Pregnancy Resource Center, we talk to many men about the choices they have when their facing an unplanned pregnancy.

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